"I was nearing 40 and finally manifested the right person to enter my life. He wanted to have a child of his own and I was ready to be pregnant again. Our first attempt lead to ectopic pregnancy, which is pregnancy in the tubes. After going through D&C, shots of chemotherapy - I ended up in emergency surgery for internal bleeding. I was now down to a single fallopian tube. The surgery was a traumatic experience as I was not prepared. When you are being rushed into surgery, you start to think of things that you have not thought of before like what if I die.
What is life all about?
Why do we each go through these challenges?
Being a mom is a feeling that made my heart feel like it was overflowing with love. I remember feeling like there was love just oozing out of each pore in my body as I looked in the eyes of my first daughter. At that point you understand what unconditional love is. I used to tear up at times from joy and happiness. I ended up being a single mom for close to 10 years before meeting my soul mate. The love I felt for my daughter help push me into things that I would not have if I had not had her dependent on me.
So here I was nearing 40, with the love of my life and my chances of conceiving was less than 13%! We spend the time and money to go through IVF testing to find out what our chances were. IVF is a great option for those who have trouble conceiving, especially if there are physical limitations.
Being an NLP coach and a spiritual explorer, I have always believed in trying and learning about techniques that are unique. I found a wonderful 'Acupunturist' who specialized in fertility problems for older women.
My first analysis with him lead to things that opened my eyes to a whole new world of accessing information from your body. Since then I have researched and developed many techniques that incorporate how anyone can utilize these signs to help themselves and fine tune their bodies.
Getting pregnant requires timing and bodies being in perfect health to allow for fertilization. I also believe there has to be spiritual energies that need to be in sync. For example, if you want a child but your spouse is not ready to have a child or does not want to have a child, this will interfere with energies. On the flip side, if you sit and visualize and talk about what having a child will bring into your life and discuss the love and excitement of what it will be like, it will exponentially increase your attraction factor. Matter is condensed energy and the more you focus your mental energies the faster you will manifest.
Visualization
Visualization is our imagination and it is the greatest gift we have. You see, our body does not know whether we are actually seeing something or just visualizing it. There has been numerous tests that prove how our body reacts the same way to visualized images as it does for real images. So start to utilize the power to visualize the perfect healthy body waiting for your child, perfect memories with your child, how you will feel, what you will see, think, smell, taste...
Organic Foods
Make a commitment to energize your body naturally. We eat food that have no spiritual or natural energies. Start to eat all natural foods because they contain more than just natural vitamins and minerals, they contain energies that our body knows to utilize. Start to feed your mind and body in positive, natural ways to help you build the perfect state for you and your baby.
When I went to see my acupunturist, he told me to hold off on IVF and to allow him to treat me for three months. At that point, I felt like I didn't have three months I could give up as I was getting older and older and IVF was going to take months just to get ready. But I decided to take try the treatments. My husband and my sister planned a special getaway in Florida for us to try. You see with one tube, I had no idea which side was ovulating. He booked a special night at a resort and we had champagne and talked about what it will be like to have our baby and enjoyed our night.
When I returned my acupuncturist immediately ""tuned-me"" up for implanting.
Two weeks later, I found out I was pregnant. Three weeks later I started to bleed. The emotional coaster I was about to go through had just started. My doctors sent me to get lab tests and sonograms. Sonograms did not show anything. My hormone levels were not increasing as expected. My short lived happiness was turning into fear of another surgery. I felt like I was doing something wrong but didn't know what. What could I be doing that is causing it? There had to be something going on - or so I thought.
Most of us tend to blame ourselves when things do not work out. Part of it is true and part of it is not. If you think about how the universe works and how everyone is manifesting at all times, we are swimming in the sea of energies, so if you are not manifesting your desires strongly, then you are influenced by others. These energies we don't see but our lives are a result of these powers. We don't see wireless data flowing through our computers either but we know it works because we see the results. Manifesting works the same way,-your manifestations, your spouses desires all combine. Belief of trusting the process when you start to take control of your life is the KEY to your success. When I look at my son, I know the reason we went through all the struggles. In my mind, I had to go through all those to get ready for my son. Whether it was his soul, the timing or the right path lining up, you have to have faith that it is all happening for a reason and that it will all line up for YOU!
BELIEF/FAITH
Belief and Faith that everything is lining up for your pregnancy to take place is the one key element most of us lack when we are faced with challenges and problems. But you hear stories of people from around the world who achieve impossible miracles simply by having faith and belief in God, or Goddesses. Whatever you believe in, it provides a channel of energy that is so strong, and I believe, it is the key to manifesting and having all that you want in your life. If you have the belief and the faith it is coming your way without any doubt - the channel is opened! This is one of the things I focus on when I build customized products for my clients. You see everyone is different in their hopes and dreams. Everyone also has certain frequencies that they specifically utilize. Each of us is an energy system. We are constantly changing. You are manifesting, giving off and receiving energies at all times. Whether you are aware of it or not- this is happening. If you decide to take control of it today and see how it changes your life - you can! And ONLY you can do it.
TIME LINE TECHNIQUE
There is a Neuro-Linguistic Programming technique called Time Line. I utilize time line in every session. This is a powerful technique that allows you to fully put your desires in your timeline concept to allow for law of attraction and quantum physics to be put in action. Here are the steps:
1 - Visualize where your time line would be if your past and future are the opposite ends. For some people this is a line going from right to left and others this is a line that goes through them, where their future is in front of them and their past is behind them. I have had clients whose time lines wrapped around them. There is no right or wrong way. However you see your time line is the right way. Make sure you take some time to think about this because it is important to have it exactly right.
Here is a tip of how you can find your time line. When I ask you the earliest memory you have about your childhood, where would that be located? What about something in your future - which direction do you think about or point to when you talk about your past and future. Some people will gesture with their hands from right to left or vs. Some people will gesture over their shoulders for the past.
2- Now that you have your timeline outlined. I want you to put yourself in a relaxed state. You can do this by breathing deeply or playing some classical or soothing music. I want you to step foot in the future on your timeline when you have your baby or when you are pregnant - whichever is the image you think of most often. Now physically move yourself to that spot on your time line. For example; if your future is in front of you, step into that future in your mind and physically.
3- Now we are going to visualize and manifest with all your senses. Now that you have stepped foot in to your future, you can manifest your dream - think about how you are going to feel, what you will see, how you will act, how different your life will be, how your relationship with your spouse is, what you smell, what is around you. Think about how your life is at that point. Include all your sense with your visualizations.
4- Do this on regular basis to put yourself in a happy mood and also to help manifest. Remember the more you focus, the more you create. The stronger your emotions, the stronger your manifestations. If you do this before you go to bed and immediately after you wake up. Your mind will process it all night.
CONNECT WITH OTHERS
Find others who can encourage you and motivate you. If you have people who are negative, they will drain your energy. Surround yourself with positive people. Listen to happy songs, watch happy movies.
DEALING WITH CHALLENGES
We all have challenges that we may not understand. Keeping your faith and belief is the key to overcoming challenges. See them as learning lessons or wake up moments. When I started to bleed, it lead me to discover that my body was rejecting the baby because it could not take care of me and the baby. My kidneys were not strong enough to filter for both the baby and I, so my body was deciding to abort the baby. My regular doctor scheduled me for a D&C where as my acupuncturist told me take herbs to strengthen my kidneys and uterus. One doctor had written my pregnancy off and the other was working to save it! I took herbs and after 2 drinks, my bleeding dropped down to a few droplets. I kept taking my herbs and bleeding stopped. I wasn't going to the bathroom in the middle of the night. I felt hopeful again and decided to take time to meditate. Meditation is alone time with good classical or meditation music. I utilized this time to look at all the events and how all of it was leading me to hold my baby in my arms.
We had challenges, I forgot my herbs while traveling for work and started to bleed again. I raced home to ensure I didn't risk my pregnancy. I went through a lot of emotional roller coaster rides due to tests and expectations. But my acupuncturist guided me through those times.
Our body talks to us. When we are tired, we see it in our faces. When we are unhealthy, our body shows it in so many ways. Learn to read your body. This is what Chinese doctors master.
I hope sharing this with you has made a difference in your life. I would love to hear your story and comments."
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